*the gross toilet theory*

to fall in love and be in a relationship is to eat something u love

that it satisfies your hunger the moment u taste it,

keeps u full,

provides the nutrients u need,

and it makes u really happy especially when it is the food that u have been longing for.

as the relationship grows older and u get to know your lover better,

knowing about his/her imperfections,

realising that he/she is not flawless from within,

so different from the kind of person he/she portrays.

the same goes for the favourite food u have eaten,

it will be broken into smaller particles in order to allow better absorption,

and everyone knows that these half-way digested food is no longer look as nice as it is before u eat it.

to suffer in a relationship where arguements are common is like having a diarrhea.

it's extreme painful and hard to get rid of.

when you feel so unhappy in your relationship,it is hard to fake a smile although you are in the middle of partying and you might not going to party at all,

you can hardly carve a smile too when u r having diarrhea.

the only choice left : go toilet and release to let it go~

and that's why couples tend to break up and let him/her go~

but the word 'diarrhea' suggest that you need to go to toilet few times,

just like the relationship,struggling hard before really break up.

and then,the moment you realise that you no longer miss him/her or love him/her

is exactly the same feeling when u realise that the diarrhea has stopped.

what you will be feeling next?

lighter?

no burden?

more relaxing?

or 'arh...finally~' ?

=)

although falling in love and breaking up is a painful process

but people keep trying it

although eating and defaecation is a painful process

but people keep trying it

the reason is simple

we eat to live,

we live to love,

no matter how painful it is in the end.